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Don't forget...

Whenever you're feeling like you "need" him or "want" him remember these few 'quirks' about him...

Doesn't bother to offer ANY help - Doesn't have ANY motivation to look out for you - Doesn't think about anyone except himself. When it comes to doing what he want's to do, he does it without batting an eye. You are the last person he's worried about. When it comes to paying bills or helping the one person that gave him a place to stay, food to eat & an environment that he wouldn't have if he went 'home", that doesn't happen. Beer & cigarettes come before EVERYTHING whenever he has money. Responsibilities are the very last thing he's going to take care of. You're not allowed to mention ANYTHING pertaining to him getting his shit together because he will say you're "bitching" (even if it's the first time you've ever mentioned anything). His thoughts are "If you don't talk about it, it will go away" so don't try to talk about ANYTHING that would be of a benefit to him & his life. He's an every other day drunk & when he's not drinking he's reading hunting online. Don't ask him for help because he will look at you like you just asked him to eat the asshole out of a dead hog. If you're the closest person to him you can expect to be last on the totem pole, the one who he lashes out on whenever his baby momma acts a damn fool & you will be the one who gets to carry him & stay broke while he's spending his money on HIMSELF

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